A man was instantly dumped when he told his date that he was often ‘marginalised’ as a straight male, and she caught the whole date on film.
TikTok star Javs said she went on the ‘shortest date in history’ which was recorded because she was taking a selfie as the pair sat down in a cafe.
In the background the man’s voice can be heard, and he says “as a straight male I often feel marginalised” and the woman pauses for just a second, then looks back to the man.
She then says “I’m going home”, gets up, leaves, and uploads the video to TikTok – and now it has gone viral with over 3.8 million views.
Some viewers were convinced that it was staged but Javs added in the comments: “One quick thing, I’m allowed to leave even if he said nothing at all. That’s the beauty of choice…getting mad at me for leaving is [a red flag].”
One said: “Proud of you for leaving right away, so many people stay because they feel obligated to.”
Another wrote: “This wasn’t a red flag that was a whole state of emergency.”
Some debated why the man used the word “marginalised”.
“He said he felt marginalised, as a white straight male you cannot ever feel marginalised because he is the oppressor,” a viewer commented while a second said: “Treating someone as insignificant is marginalised.”
However, one stressed: “I don’t care what you all say about how the patriarchy affects everyone, if I hear ‘as a straight male’… I’m out.”
Meanwhile, a woman’s terrible date went viral after he started flirting with waitress right in front of her.
We’re no experts when it comes to dating, but everyone knows there are certain no-nos when comes to being on a first date. You know, like talking about exes, or flirting with absolutely anyone except your date.
Sadly, it seems like one man wasn’t aware of the latter – or, at least, he chose to ignore it – when he started outrageously flirting with the waitress who was serving him and his date.
In fact, things got so bad that his date, Emely S, took to TikTok to share her horrific experience, and even considered getting her own back on him.